Peace Okokon

What a woman want to hear:17 things you must say to a woman

Here are very simple but a must say to every woman:

1. LAST NIGHT WAS AMAZING
It is very important to say nice things to your woman especially in the morning after a great sex. This strengthens her resolve to always satisfy you and make your life more pleasurable. That feeling that she made your night is invaluable to her.

2. WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER
In times of trouble or at trying moments, all she needs is her lover, when you say this to her you reassure her that she is not alone and that instills more courage in her to go the hog.

3. I HOPE YOU ARE READY FOR TONIGHT?
Just the sound of this will turn any lady on and make her anxiously wait for the night to come.

4. AM NEVER LETTING YOU GO
Nothing can encourage a woman as much as knowing that her man has made up his mind to stick with her no matter what.

5. I WILL BE HERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU WANT TO TALK
this helps to improve how she sees you. It boosts her confidence. Remember every woman wants to be heard, and knowing that you are always available to hear her out means so much to her.

6. YOU ARE SO SEXY
Women love to hear this often, especially when it is coming from the one they love, for a woman, once her man says she’s sexy whatever any other says is definitely of no import.

7. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
The feeling of being beautiful is mostly sparked by a loved one. A woman trends to smile and blush whenever they are so complimented by their man, this can spark up serious confidence in the relationship.

8. TELL ME HOW I CAN BE OF HELP
Tell me how I can be of help is everything, even when you can’t really be be of help, saying this to a woman makes her realize that you are willing to assist her and help her through all things.

9. I WILL NEVER DO THAT TO YOU
This is very helpful, especially when trust is at the verge of being challenged or doubt is trying to creep into a relationship.

10. HOW ARE YOU?
Women feel good knowing that you care about them. To such extent that you want to know how she is doing, if all is well with her. And for a woman, knowing that her well being is of importance to you encourages her and in turn makes her to care more for you too.

11. I LOVE YOU
Say it, say it again ,say it at all times she likes to hear that, she is happy to know this, it increases her love for you.

12. I GOT YOU
When she’s afraid and and can’t move on, let her know that she must not give up because you got her.

13. YOU ARE ALL I NEED
If she feels that she is all you need ,she will never want to disappoint you, because she feels that you have high expectations from her, and knowing that you believe so much in her will make her work extra hard just to keep it that way.

14.THIS IS WHAT I LOVE ABOUT YOU
Never Hesitate to let your woman know the things you love about her, this will encourage her to keep it up.

15. I KNEW I COULD TRUST YOU WITH THIS
This is always a great way to appreciate your woman and also a way to encourage her to take care of a responsibilityvthat you have entrusted to her.

16. THANK YOU
say thank you for everything, be appreciative, for giving you a good meal, sexual satisfaction, washing your clothes, taking care of your kids, even for loving and being there for you.

17. YOU ARE THE BEST
tell her this as many times as possible. She will be happy and try to be the very best at least not to disappoint you. It also improves her perception of herself and indeed of you.

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15 QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE

As a man, do you often wonder what those qualities are that a woman should possess before she can be said to be a good wife?
Every man wants a good wife and everywoman wants to be the best wife possible for her husband.

Bringing Proverbs 31 to the modern day reality, Here are some of the qualities that a good wife should possses:
1. She always listens and gives attention to her husband.

2. She never disrespects her husband especially, in the present of friends, family or their children.

3. She always makes out time for her husband no matter how tight her schedule is.

4. She never monitors nor polices her husband .

5. She feeds him with good home made food.

6. She doesn’t ignore his sexual needs.

7. She’s always ready to give him every form of support, inclusive of financial support.

8. She prays for him and wishes him well.

9. She stands up for him and defends him when the need arises.

10. She keeps the house clean and make sure that all chores are done.

11. She loves and takes care of her in-laws like she takes care of hers and accepts and sees her husband’s family as hers, without any discrimination.

12. She praises and appreciates her husband in public and in private.

13. She is honest and not deceitful.

14. She takes proper care of her self and keeps herself attractive at all times.

15. She accepts her husband’s flaw and encourages him to be better.

you may also want to read 15 qualities of a good husband. 👇https://peace7.home.blog/2018/11/09/15-qualities-of-a-good-husband/

15 QUALITIES OF A GOOD HUSBAND

The question of Who a good husband is has led to this shocking revelation.

How do you identify a good husband ?
It is the responsibility of parents to raise a good man, a boy that has not been taught certain responsibilities or one who grew up in a home where parents, especially the father lacks certain basic qualities may find it difficult to acquire such, as you can’t give what you don’t have.

Some of such qualities turn boys to men and indeed to quality husbands. What then are those qualities a man should possess to qualify as a good husband?

1. He sees his wife as his partner.
He cares for his family and put them first, they are his first priority .
He never ignores his wife’s sexual needs.

2. He finds it needful to discuss and deliberate on important issues and decisions with his wife, before embarking on any project.

3 . He is always willing to and happily helps out with the chores.

4. He never disrespects his wife in the present of the kids.

5. He defends his wife in public and reproaches her in private when such need arises.

6. He loves and appreciates his wife’s good qualities and accepts her flaws, he never makes her feel bad or guilty about her flaws.

7. He pays bills and never leaves his family hungry.

8. He listens to his wife, every wife wants to be heard.

9. He takes good care of his looks and never lets go of himself .

10. He is generous and never hesitates to shower his wife with gifts.

11. He takes care of his in-laws just as much as he takes care of his parents, and sees his wife’s relatives as his.

12. He is always there for his wife, even when it’s not convenient, he still makes out time for her despite his busy schedule.

13. He is dependable and someone his wife can always rely on in every situation.

14. He brings out the best in his wife.

15. He doesn’t kill the dreams and aspirations of his wife, instead he encourages and supports her the best way he can.

also read Quality of a good husband https://peace7.home.blog/2018/11/10/15-qualities-of-a-good-wife/

I hope you are able to identify a good husband from this article, do not forget to like ,share and comment like to you know your opinion.

Anita Oriahi : meet the beautiful and talented actress

Meet beautiful and talented miss Anita Oriahi.

She’s a fast carving her niche in the fashion and entertainment industry. A fast rising actress who has featured in many Nollywood movies like.

Living nightmare
The Jezebel
My daughter my jewel
Village babes
Best friend worst enemy,etc

Anita Oriahi studied acting at the
New York film Accademy in 2012,

She has Worked with producers like Ernest obi and Uche Nancy,

The beautiful multi-talented actress is single , she is based in the USA and Nigeria, Anita does businesses in both countries.
Anita is currently working on a movie, tittled kuvana, produced and directed by Edward Uka, where she starring alongside Ifeanyilalu , Ivie okujaye Sambasa and many more.

The curvy and light skinned actress hail from Ika south, Agbor in Delta state of Nigeria, the fun-loving lady was raised in kaduna state.
She is not just an actress but also a business icon and a fashionista
She has worked with top actors in the likes of

Tonto Dikeh, Late Muna Chibekwu, Mercy Johnson, Walter Anga, Yemi Black, Mike Ezuruoye etc
Follow Anita on instagram @anitapriceless
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Trust your way to happiness: change your approach

It’s easier to create problems than to fix them.

We are Seventy percent of the time, responsible for our happiness. Relying on your partner to he happy can cause you great pain, health challenge or even your life.

Today we will be looking at ways via which we can avoid heartaches, stress and pain in relationships.

Some of the major things that cause you pain and tears are things that you could have avoided.

I will be focusing on trust in this article .

Trust can stand in where love shakes, the fact that you love someone should actually enhance your trust for that person and not to erode it.

But the combination of trust and love is the key to a successful and happy relationship.

#never marry a person solely on the basis of love:

It is even better to marry someone you trust rather than someone you love, trust can bring about love, lack of trust can destroy love. This is a very important key that you must always put into consideration, either in marriage or while dating.

You may want to read this 👇

https://peace7.home.blog/2018/10/08/love-is-not-enough-part-three/

#Don’t you ever doubt your partner :

doubting you partner will cause you, great pain, as everything they do will be suspicious, and confrontation will creep in, leading to arguments and you know what arguing can result in.

#Learn to let go:

Letting go is very difficult, yet carrying on and keeping record of all, offences or bad days could even be more dangerous, it’s OK not to forget about some things that happened as it can serve as a guide for future occurrences, but judging or suspecting every action or step taken by your partner based on such past unpleasant experiences can make your relationship an unhealthy one.

#Don’t always believe your head and eyes:

Yes! Your eyes can deceive you like wise your head, your eyes will see something and your head will interprete it wrongly, leaving your mind troubled, don’t forget that there are always two sides to every story.

#Don’t seek for what you don’t really want to know:

You ask questions that you most times don’t truly want to hear the honest answer, then why ask in the first place? I know sometimes people tend to ask just to get some reassurance, you’ve got to be careful what you ask for, why pick up your partner’s mobile phone in search of what you don’t want to see or hear, you pretend to want to use their computer for work, you ask their close friends questions about your partner, you go as far as policing them, you are the one that will get hurt.

Stop it now so that you can enjoy your relationship. Avoid unwanted trouble and and avoid negative energy and you will be happy!!

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THE RELATIONSHIP AIN’T WORKING,THESE COULD BE REASON

The relationship ain’t working? these could be the reason.

Oftentimes, single ladies make lots of relationship mistakes without realizing it.
Most of the relationships that lead to marriage, do not get so much energy being worked: they just happen. Let it happen on its own! don’t force it and don’t make anyone stay with you under false pretence, stay happy and put your happiness first.

Do you know why you get hurt over and over again?

#When you are in a relationship , you tend to give more than you get:
you tend to give too much, just because you want to please the man, so he can start considering you for marriage.

#You pretend to be someone else :
It’s not necessary for you to put yourself in the mould of his “ex” because he told you he really loved her and she was all so fantastic, hey! Don’t be caught up trying to be someone else just so he can love and want to spend the rest of his life with you. If she were that fantastic, why are they separated?

#You are not his mum!
There is absolutely no reason why you should try to be his mum , yes it’s OK to care for him, but he is a man and you got to let him take charge. If he prefers her, he should go marry his mom.

#Financial pretence :
The fact that You want want him to marry you, you pretend not have financial needs, you even borrow to buy him presents and cook special meals for him, hmm, you are undoing yourself.

#Unlimited Sex:
No matter the amount of sex, it’s never enough there will always be desire for more, why have sex when you don’t want to just to please a man that you are not even married to? if he really does not want to be with you sex is not going to make him to.

#You lost your freedom of expression, especially the right to express anger or dissapointment?:
You now have to accept certain behaviors you usually would not tolerate and even more all in a bid to keep him by making him see you as very patient and slow to anger.

Live your life, put your happiness first, the relationship and marriage will sort it self out.

Live and run it like you ain’t ready.

Do not be in a hurry to get married , read this https://peace7.home.blog/2018/11/06/rocking-singlehood-heres-why-you-must//

Play save and stay happy !!!

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Missing hubby: cold night

It’s a cold night, it’s so cold and quiet and am So much in deep thought . I do want to go to sleep.

Yet my heart won’t rest a bit, it won’t go to sleep, yes I got stuffs running through my head,

Oh I wish hubby was home

I wish i could sleep in his arms,

I wish he was here to cuddle me, make sweet love to me, and talk me to sleep .

Managing a distance marriage is a hell of a job, I just want him to hold me very firm ,each and every night very close that I can only smell him.

So much so that I don’t want morning to come, the silence and cold here keep reminding me that am alone,

I wish could see his cute eyes even with my eyes close,

Missing you is now a routine but am glad that I have you in my life, at least I have someone to miss.

Hubby dear I miss you .

good night .

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ROCKING SINGLEHOOD: HERE’S WHY YOU MUST

Being single is not bad, horrible neither does it imply that the married ones are better or happier than you.

Many single persons have allowed Society in many ways to define them as they make it look like married people are better and happier. This is not true, on the contrary most singles are even happier than the married ones some married persons wished they made better use of there singlehood while some others really want out.

It is very important for you to understand that marriage is sweeter from the view of a single person than in real terms.

Reasons abound why you should enjoy your single hood.

# You live your life in your terms, go where you want to go, you don’t ask permission from anyone before embarking on any thing your heart desires

#Traveling and adventure, when you are married and got kids, you will not have the opportunity that you have now as a non married person, you can’t tour round the world without worrying about anyone.

# Fun and friends, trust me once you are married you can’t have as much fun as you use to have, you can’t stay out late, you can’t club, you hardly have time for your friends, because you will be too busy with the family

# Your space, I know most people who like their space, it’s extremely difficult to enjoy having a space to yourself without anyone touching, moving or dropping their own stuffs in your space, but while you are single you have your space to yourself

# Changing location, you wake up and decide to change your location either state or country, when you get married you will not be able to do that. Just to mention a few amongst many reasons why single hood is a blessing in disguise.

SEX ROSTER: WHY YOU DON’T NEED ONE

Am I the only one hearing of this sex time table even amongst legally married couples?

Funny as this may seem to many, it is real in many homes.

Sex it’s not something you program yourself for it’s an emotional feeling triggered by the thought.

While some people may settle for programmed sex the vast majority consider it a terrible idea.

Here are some reasons👇

What happens when your partner does something really sweet and you are happy and feel like just having sex with him/her oops! You remember it’s not scheduled time so you have to wait for the scheduled time?
Sometimes when you have headache sex is all you need not drugs, what if the headache came at the wrong time ,read this to see how https://peace7.home.blog/2018/10/14/sex-and-marriage/
If one partner is in the mood and the other insist on waiting for the scheduled time, this can lead to adultery as the aroused partner will go out to gain sexual satisfaction outwide his matrimony read this
Some couples like quickies at noon time, so when hubby misses you at work place and feels like coming home during lunch hour, scheduled time should be a barrier?
Having regular sex keeps couples bonded, and increases their openness. Scheduling sex may become an obstacle that can hamper your closeness. read more 👇https://peace7.home.blog/2018/10/22/cheating-wife-5-possibly-reasons/
Sex can serve as conflict resolution in marriage, in many cases sex has settled strong arguments between couples, so why wait until scheduled time if sex can settle it now
read this https://peace7.home.blog/2018/10/18/7-keys-to-conflict-resolution-in-relationship/

Pastor Giwa: I warmed you against Joining APC, quit politics now-Olusola Oke

Pastor Adewale, the senior Pastor of Awaiting The Second Coming Of Jesus Christ Gospel Church in Akure, has advised the governorship candidate of the Alliance of Democracy (AD) in the last governorship election in Ondo State, Chief Olusola Oke to leave politics for another lucrative job.

Pastor Giwa, who was reacting to the statement made by Chief Oke who said he regretted rejoining the All Progressives Congress, APC, revealed that he (Giwa) personally warned the politician to remain in his previous party.

Oke had led his supporters to the APC shortly after he lost the 2016 governorship election.

The former National Legal Adviser of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, and his supporters had since been sidelined in the scheme of things.

However, Giwa in a statement to DAILY POST said he knew Chief Oke would be used and dumped by the administration of Chief Oluwarotimi Akeredolu.

“Yes, I warned Chief Oke when he wanted to rejoin the APC, but didn’t listen. Look at where he has ended up his political career.

“As a matter of fact, it is time for him to quit politics because he doesn’t know the game. He needs to go learn the game more from professional politicians.

“Oke has lost followers with his inconsistency in politics, I do hope he has learnt a good lesson from his political downfall.”