It’s easier to create problems than to fix them.
We are Seventy percent of the time, responsible for our happiness. Relying on your partner to he happy can cause you great pain, health challenge or even your life.
Today we will be looking at ways via which we can avoid heartaches, stress and pain in relationships.
Some of the major things that cause you pain and tears are things that you could have avoided.
I will be focusing on trust in this article .
Trust can stand in where love shakes, the fact that you love someone should actually enhance your trust for that person and not to erode it.
But the combination of trust and love is the key to a successful and happy relationship.
#never marry a person solely on the basis of love:
It is even better to marry someone you trust rather than someone you love, trust can bring about love, lack of trust can destroy love. This is a very important key that you must always put into consideration, either in marriage or while dating.
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#Don’t you ever doubt your partner :
doubting you partner will cause you, great pain, as everything they do will be suspicious, and confrontation will creep in, leading to arguments and you know what arguing can result in.
#Learn to let go:
Letting go is very difficult, yet carrying on and keeping record of all, offences or bad days could even be more dangerous, it’s OK not to forget about some things that happened as it can serve as a guide for future occurrences, but judging or suspecting every action or step taken by your partner based on such past unpleasant experiences can make your relationship an unhealthy one.
#Don’t always believe your head and eyes:
Yes! Your eyes can deceive you like wise your head, your eyes will see something and your head will interprete it wrongly, leaving your mind troubled, don’t forget that there are always two sides to every story.
#Don’t seek for what you don’t really want to know:
You ask questions that you most times don’t truly want to hear the honest answer, then why ask in the first place? I know sometimes people tend to ask just to get some reassurance, you’ve got to be careful what you ask for, why pick up your partner’s mobile phone in search of what you don’t want to see or hear, you pretend to want to use their computer for work, you ask their close friends questions about your partner, you go as far as policing them, you are the one that will get hurt.
Stop it now so that you can enjoy your relationship. Avoid unwanted trouble and and avoid negative energy and you will be happy!!