The relationship ain’t working? these could be the reason.
Oftentimes, single ladies make lots of relationship mistakes without realizing it.
Most of the relationships that lead to marriage, do not get so much energy being worked: they just happen. Let it happen on its own! don’t force it and don’t make anyone stay with you under false pretence, stay happy and put your happiness first.
Do you know why you get hurt over and over again?
#When you are in a relationship , you tend to give more than you get:
you tend to give too much, just because you want to please the man, so he can start considering you for marriage.
#You pretend to be someone else :
It’s not necessary for you to put yourself in the mould of his “ex” because he told you he really loved her and she was all so fantastic, hey! Don’t be caught up trying to be someone else just so he can love and want to spend the rest of his life with you. If she were that fantastic, why are they separated?
#You are not his mum!
There is absolutely no reason why you should try to be his mum , yes it’s OK to care for him, but he is a man and you got to let him take charge. If he prefers her, he should go marry his mom.
#Financial pretence :
The fact that You want want him to marry you, you pretend not have financial needs, you even borrow to buy him presents and cook special meals for him, hmm, you are undoing yourself.
No matter the amount of sex, it’s never enough there will always be desire for more, why have sex when you don’t want to just to please a man that you are not even married to? if he really does not want to be with you sex is not going to make him to.
#You lost your freedom of expression, especially the right to express anger or dissapointment?:
You now have to accept certain behaviors you usually would not tolerate and even more all in a bid to keep him by making him see you as very patient and slow to anger.
Live your life, put your happiness first, the relationship and marriage will sort it self out.
Live and run it like you ain’t ready.
Do not be in a hurry to get married , read this https://peace7.home.blog/2018/11/06/rocking-singlehood-heres-why-you-must//
Play save and stay happy !!!