THE NARROW WAY TO SUCCESS

The way to success is narrow. It is indeed difficult to scale through, full of obstacles, but reachable, possibility, Courage and Determination is key to success.

Usually, some factors and or thoughts militate against the achievement of one’s goals and even taking steps that could lead to such achievements as a result of “fear of uncertainty” which holds you down, giving you reasons using the “what if” mantra so you can’t move on.
In different faces of life, this fear and questions have successfully held you down.

It has stopped you from leaving that abusive marriage killing you because you have questions such as “what if i don’t get another man?”, “will i spend the rest of my life alone?”, “what will the society say to me?”, “how will i manage to pay bills?”, “won’t my family be shamed for my sake?”.

That fear has also stopped you from accepting yourself, you are no longer living your life and doing the things you love, knowing fully well that they make you happier with life, as others do not appreciate your opinion towards life, you have been living the way others live so that you can be loved and accepted.

This fear has stopped you from even doing that Business that you really wanted to do, but the fear of loosing and not becoming successful won’t let you find your way, what if i don’t become successful and i have already left my job, how will i survive?.

You have been doing a lot of things the way society, friends and family like it or want you to.
It is time to do things your way and success is sure!.

It’s ok to fail, its ok if you try and don’t succeed, at least you would have tried, you didn’t get married again but you are alive and have found peace and happiness.

you left your paid job and tried to do your own thing, but things did not work out as expected, its ok, you can try again or try something else, the peace you enjoy being your own boss is priceless.

You must care less, if you failed, do it again and again until you get it right. Don’t let anyone talk you down, because if you can think it you can see it,. Remove the word “impossible” from your dictionary.

Pass through that road and whatever that comes your way kill it! Crush it! And if you couldn’t make it the first time, go back prepare better and conquer!
Then you will surely be successful, happy, and most of all peaceful.

Don’t be afraid to take that risk, it is better to try and fail than live your life to regret that you never tried.

Only the fearless and risk takers are successful !!

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FINANCIAL READINESS BEFORE MARRIAGE

Understanding the need to be financially independent before marriage .

finance play a very strong role in marriage, as a matter of fact the need for finance starts from the period of dating, you need finance to buy a gift for your partner, you need finance to around surprise party for birthday and anniversaries, you need money to have dinner in an expensive or beautiful restaurant.

when you take a step forward you will also need finance to arrange for wedding and there are no small weddings our there, there are usually many expenses.

It is of importance you understand that you can’t get married with the mind set that your family or anyone will help you feed your family as a man, or get married expecting that the man will shoulder all your financial needs, both parties involved in the relationship must be financially ready.

It is also necessary to check your income level, before engaging yourself into marriage. If it’s enough to Cather for your family, can you pay all bills without having to beg or borrow to sustain your family.

It is not advisable to get married while you are indebted as this can cause you a serious set back and would make things very difficult as marriage itself comes with lots of financial responsibilities,remember that debt is a liability.

Plan your life and your finance before you get married, couples that are faced with serious financial challenge are mostly sad and on affectionate and tends to have more rife, arguments and misunderstanding as a hungry man is an angry man.

If you are unable to cater for your self, how can you cater for a whole family let’s not bring the extended or new families that will become yours due to the new formed relationship.

Be sure to be ready and avoid regrets and unhappiness.

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