The way to success is narrow. It is indeed difficult to scale through, full of obstacles, but reachable, possibility, Courage and Determination is key to success.

Usually, some factors and or thoughts militate against the achievement of one’s goals and even taking steps that could lead to such achievements as a result of “fear of uncertainty” which holds you down, giving you reasons using the “what if” mantra so you can’t move on.
In different faces of life, this fear and questions have successfully held you down.

It has stopped you from leaving that abusive marriage killing you because you have questions such as “what if i don’t get another man?”, “will i spend the rest of my life alone?”, “what will the society say to me?”, “how will i manage to pay bills?”, “won’t my family be shamed for my sake?”.

That fear has also stopped you from accepting yourself, you are no longer living your life and doing the things you love, knowing fully well that they make you happier with life, as others do not appreciate your opinion towards life, you have been living the way others live so that you can be loved and accepted.

This fear has stopped you from even doing that Business that you really wanted to do, but the fear of loosing and not becoming successful won’t let you find your way, what if i don’t become successful and i have already left my job, how will i survive?.

You have been doing a lot of things the way society, friends and family like it or want you to.
It is time to do things your way and success is sure!.

It’s ok to fail, its ok if you try and don’t succeed, at least you would have tried, you didn’t get married again but you are alive and have found peace and happiness.

you left your paid job and tried to do your own thing, but things did not work out as expected, its ok, you can try again or try something else, the peace you enjoy being your own boss is priceless.

You must care less, if you failed, do it again and again until you get it right. Don’t let anyone talk you down, because if you can think it you can see it,. Remove the word “impossible” from your dictionary.

Pass through that road and whatever that comes your way kill it! Crush it! And if you couldn’t make it the first time, go back prepare better and conquer!
Then you will surely be successful, happy, and most of all peaceful.

Don’t be afraid to take that risk, it is better to try and fail than live your life to regret that you never tried.

Only the fearless and risk takers are successful !!


10 Tips that you love your partner much more

Usually one find it difficult to understand if they love there partner more,

Sometimes it is best you pick a pen and paper and give yourself some quiz
Relationships can be too much work. But what makes them worth it, is the level of commitment each person put to make the relationship a success


  1. You are always trying to keep your partner happy. But its not applicable to them.
  2. They only respond to your ” I love you or emotions ” they never initiate it”.
  3. When future plans are discussed you don’t see yourself in the picture.
  4. Your opinion is not important so, they don’t asked.
  5. Never sacrifice friends time for you.

6. They easily forgets important dates like, wedding anniversary, anniversary and birthday.

7. They Cancels appointments most often at last minutes,they probably have better offer.

8. You are the one who always start a conversation.

9. They always blame you for every bad or misfortune.

10. They don’t like to discuss the relationship.

When love is one sided pain is inevitable!!

All of these can lead to an unhealthy relationship. And if it’s in a relationship not marriage, its safer to let go.


Active sex in marriage is a need. It Is as important as healthy meal.

Here are some listed reasons why Couples must maintain a healthy and active sex life.

  1. Reproduction. For the sake of reproductive for couples who want to have children, sex is a need, as it needed to reproduce younglings, you should know that it does not end with getting pregnant, as the baby grows, the parents need to maintain sexual relationship unti the child is born, as it helps. Reduce bathroom leak and better bladder control , prevents pre-enclanpsia, improve and boost immune.
  2. Bonding Regular sex in marriage helps the two individuals to get closer to each other, for instance, when two couples are having a fight, if one is able to make sexual advances on the other, and there able to have sex, they both forgets about there differences and laugh like nothing had happened that’s how much strength sex has in a relationship, sex help couples to grow a strong intimacy.
  3. Health benefits its no longer a news that sex has a great benefit to our health, as the high level of an anti body called immuno globulin A (IgA), which, according to researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania, combat disease and keep the body safe from colds and the flu. Sex helps us sleep more comfortably, and through better sleep, sex creates a stronger immune system. Oxytocin released during orgasm promotes a more restful sleep for both parties . Oxytocin benefits other areas of the body as well. It decreases levels to the brain disease, heart problems in men and women. It also can help with pain control, according to a study conducted at the Headache Clinic at Southern Illinois University. The study found that half of the female migraine sufferers reported relief after climaxing.
  4. Wellbeing sex helps the individuals to maintain an overall well-being, both mentally, physically emotionally and psychologically.

Have a great sex life stay happy, stay healthy!

By Peace Efanga Okokon