Words are so powerful that they can create just anything. Imagine what effects positive words could have on your spouse and relationship

Everyman loves to hear their loved ones say pleasant things to them such as:

1. I love you

We all know what effect that statement could have on us as humans, then imagine how good it feels when its coming from someone you love deeply, no matter how tough or stone hearted a man is, that sound can melt his heart and awaken something in him.

2. You are my Hero

Saying this to your husband makes him feel really good about himself especially in a situation where he saved you from any form of trouble, saying this to him will encourage him not to hesitate to help you out should any other trouble come up in future.

3. I’m here for you

As much as a woman loves to have that assurance from her man, men love it much more. When a man is assured that even in times of trouble that you are there for him, he will do all he can to keep you by his side.

4. I trust you

Trusting a man is not just enough, you have got to let him know that you truly trust him ,this will encourage him to keep being faithful to you as he will not want anything to destroy that trust you have in him.

5. You are here, so I’m safe

When things seems not to be OK and he seems too worried about how you are feeling, just let him know that you are fine because he there with you and you know that when he is with you no harm can come to you, he’s going to feel really good knowing that you believe that much in him.

6. How are you

Every time you asked him how he is doing, it sends a signal that you care for him and want to know how he is doing and he will also start showing you same care, because it’s very common and normal for us to care for those who care for us.

7. You are looking good

Never neglect appreciating your man’s look, because it won’t just encourage him to always try and keep himself looking good, but will also help boost his confidence.

8. I want to do whatever you would want me do

Sometimes your man may feel you are tired or don’t want to do whatever he wanted you two to do at that moment, if you understand him well you can say this to him to encourage him, it could be sex, game or even to see a movie.

9. I appreciate you

We all loved to be appreciated, and we sincerely love people that are appreciative, always appreciate your man for everything no matter how little it is, or how little the time he sacrificed for you is, next time he would do more.

10. You are the best

when you tell him this, you are telling him that you don’t regret choosing him as your partner, you are happy being part of him, you are at the right place where you should have been and he will in turn do his best to keep it that way.

11. thank you

always say thank you, there is no limit to how much thanks you can give, say thank you for being part of me, thank you for loving me, thank you for your support, thank you for making me the queen of your castle, thank you for making me a mother. there are many things to be thankful for, doing this is a sign that you appreciate all that he is doing and he will surely do more just because you are appreciative.

you may also want to read what a woman wants to here https://peace7.home.blog/2018/11/11/what-a-woman-want-to-hear17-things-you-must-say-to-a-woman/

today start using these words as these could help improve your relationship, encourage your spouse, make them happy and even go as far as changing their view or how they feel about themselves and the the way they see you
and ultimately keep him smiling and loving you all the way.


Published by Peace Efanga Okokon

Hello, I am Peace Efanga Okokon, A wife and proud mum of two, Am a writer, A stylist and business woman. I studied cooperate economics and management, Welcome to my space, where I drop two articles on weekly bases, Tuesdays and Fridays precisely.

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