Rising above the falling parts

There is absolutely no need for you to feel unattractive or sad about your body due to child birth.

A lot of women have lost confidence in themselves, to such extent that they even feel that the change in their body after child birth is responsible for their husband’s negative behaviour.

They say I have added so much weight, my breasts are sagged and I got so much stretch marks on my body, I think that’s why he’s cheating on me with that lady and does not like taking me out again like he used to do before, maybe he’s no longer attracted to me because of how I look, I used to be slim, I had standing and pointed breasts and I had no stretch marks on my body before I started having kids,

We used to hangout a lot, he enjoys taking me out to parties, events, meetings and he always showed me off to his friends and colleagues, but you see everything has changed since I started having kids and my looks have changed too.

No! You are wrong! it’s in your head! A man who truly loves you, loves and sees you beyond your physical looks he sees the beauty inside you, whatever changes that may have occurred in your body as a result of child birth would not change how he feels about you, you have to keep in mind that the beauty of a woman is not in her physical looks but in her attitude and personality.

Look out for possible reasons why he’s changed, and channel your mind toward making your man the sweet man he used to be,
Take a second look at yourself maybe, just maybe you are responsible for your problems, as lots of women stop taking care of themselves after marriage. They believe they no longer have reasons to look too good since they are now married. They stop wearing those sexy night wears, stop dressing up so sweetly, don’t even remember to make their hairs, no good perfumes or body spray, they begin to dress up like his mum and expect the man to take them out? No sweetie, it does not work that way.
Stand up now, get those nice bra! package those sagged breast, wear dresses that fit your new size you can be bold and beautiful and very sexy, do not live your life like a widow because your body parts are falling. Live above it.
Do not forget that this body of yours is actually more beautiful now than ever, as it has brought a new life, it can’t be better than the way it looks, these stretch marks are symbols of motherhood and it makes you super cute, be proud, be happy and rise above those falling parts.
It is nessecary for you to appreciate yourself first before others will appreciate you, stop seeing yourself as less attractive and beautiful.

By peace Efanga Okokon

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Published by Peace Efanga Okokon

Hello, I am Peace Efanga Okokon, A wife and proud mum of two, Am a writer, A stylist and business woman. I studied cooperate economics and management, Welcome to my space, where I drop two articles on weekly bases, Tuesdays and Fridays precisely.

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